How does one succeed in life?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Why do ugly men flirt with girls that are really hot?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

What I need from you?

If a non-LGBT man (of any age) from a Western country attracts far more mosquitoes than potential dates, what does that say about him?

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Why isn't bestiality illegal in most states? If children can't consent, then animals DEFINITELY can't consent. Why is being a pedophile a crime but zoophilia is not?

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Making more friends is a goal.

Do other British people agree that the UK should reconquer Ireland?

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Are you afraid to get married and why?

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Why do people stay in cults after they have joined?

Does not procrastinate.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

What has been your best sexual experience?

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Which branch of engineering is better: ECE or Civil?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

How far back into your childhood can your remember and what is your favorite memory of that time?

That's it for today.

Ask yourself:

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Can a mother forget her child after she puts him or her up for adoption?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

What does it mean when someone leaves something in your house, your room to be exact, and when you tell them, they say they left it there on purpose?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

How did you react when your doctor ordered a colonoscopy?

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.